Apparently, I Still Have Locker Anxiety 🤷‍♀️🔒


My son starts middle school next week.

In May, I offered to buy him a combination lock so he could practice opening it before school started.

He looked at me like I'd suggested we spend the summer learning tax law together. 😒

"Nah. I'll figure it out."

K.

Apparently I had prepared for an anxiety he does not have.


Which made me wonder why I was so invested in this locker situation.

So I started asking other adults about their middle school lockers and, well...

PEOPLE HAVE STORIES.

Nightmares. Avoidance. Elaborate systems. One person made a decision in sixth grade that I am still thinking about.

And somewhere in all of this, I started wondering what else we learned to carry around back then.

So this week's rabbit hole is middle school, emotional baggage, and what your Leadership Archetype would be if it were a school supply.

As one does.

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P.S. I have never felt more psychologically exposed by a box of Crayolas.


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